5 Red Flags from God: He Is Not Your Future Spouse Sis! 🚩🙅🏾‍♀️🚩

"I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distraction as possible." - (1 Corinthians 7:35)

1. He does not truly have a relationship with God. He might say things like this:
    a) I don't believe in God, but "I'm Spiritual."
    b) I believe there's a higher power somewhere, but I don't necessarily believe in God.
    c) God doesn't exist at all... At this point I say RUNNN sis!

The Bible says: "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? An what communion has light with darkness?" - (Corinthians 6:14)

2. He distracts you from God and your purpose through God. Meaning he doesn't draw you closer to God at all. 

The Bible Says: "No temptations has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

Distraction can lead to Destruction! Sis use the ways of escape that God has provided you and don't allow anyone to hinder you. 

3) He's more focused on having sex with you than getting to know you. A man like that practices sex before marriage. He might say things like, "God gave us sex so why not use what God gave us." or "God gave us sex so we can enjoy it freely."

The Bible Says: "Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body."- (1 Corinthians 6:18)

" For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain form sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God." - (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)

4. He's true character/behavior starts to show over time...He eventually tells on himself. You start to notice that he is mean to others, he doesn't treat you with respect or value you as a woman.

The Bible Says: "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you." - (John 15:12)

"So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets." - (Matthew 7:12)

5. He feels like he doesn't deserve you or you are too good for him. When a man starts to tell you things like that then believe him cause the truth is he knows the type of man he is can not lead a faithful, strong Christian woman like yourself.

Bonus: He's too focused on worldly and material things instead of his calling or purpose.

The Bible Says: " Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love for the Father is not in him." - (1 John 2:15) 

Remember you are a queen and you deserve nothing but God's best. Never settle for less!👑❤️

God Bless 🙏🏾

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